Wake Up!

14-Day Challenge | 10

Soul Tie – The Ties That Bind

Your eyes wide open, yet you’re sleepwalking. You’re alive within, but spiritually dead. Why does life pass you by only to tell the stories of your afterlife? Why does the shadow remember your name? Your soul cries, and the heartaches, for you, are unhappy in your current state. You constantly replay the narratives over and over, overriding the language of love. 

Why do you lead without your life partner, God, then question the emptiness within? There are things to be unfolded, as destiny awaits. Wake Up! You will attract the abundance into your life through your creativity and ideas. Wake Up! Your life will never be the same. You will transform the people around you and their experience. Reflecting your current state of higher consciousness. You have got to wake up! Now breathe!

Time has manifested itself through growth putting you in a  better place, but life’s challenges will continue to present themselves to you. Continue to evolve, for you are in a better place.

Easily Broken

14-Day Challenge | Day 9

Soul Tie – The Ties That Bind
Easily Broken!
Whether you’re a religious person or not, soul ties is a theory that can be explained and understood by anyone. It’s the idea that certain actions can connect you to a person and cause you to bond in a way that is not easily broken. Typically, soul ties are said to come from sex. It’s the physical act of giving yourself to another person that makes you vulnerable to such a connection.
If you are connected to a person in a way that destructs and disrupts the soul, take the time to monitor your thoughts, how you feel on a daily basis. Examine your energy, how you feel in their company. If you are living in a constant state of sadness, hopelessness, confinement, and depression, you’re bonded to your partner unhealthy way. A negative soul tie will cause you to believe that love is supposed to feel like sadness and misery, where you are unable to see no light at the end of the tunnel.
The feeling or attempt to disconnect yourself from someone is the first sign that something isn’t right. We do not separate or distance ourselves from the things that bring us pleasure. The upside is that there is hope for severing the connection. It begins with a decision to live and love differently. Know that, just as daunting as negative soul ties can be, positive soul ties are equally powerful.
Tying yourself to the wrong person is the most influential love lesson you will learn in this lifetime. It prepares you for the world in a way that only pain and heartache can. The beauty is that it teaches you everything that love is not, and moving forward you get to choose differently.
#influentiallove #heartache #lifelesson #disconnect #tormentsoul #pain

UResteem-Day 21

Reset Your Thinking Day 21 – UrEsteem

“Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing.” ― August Wilson

ResetLow self-esteem is a negative evaluation of oneself. This type of evaluation usually occurs when some circumstance we encounter in our life touches on our sensitivities. We personalize the incident and experience physical, emotional, and cognitive arousal. This is so alarming and confusing that we respond by acting in a self-defeating or self-destructive manner. When that happens, our actions tend to be automatic and impulse-driven; we feel upset or emotionally blocked; our thinking narrows; our self-care deteriorates; we lose our sense of self; we focus on being in control and become self-absorbed.

Self-esteem is not set in stone. Raising it is possible, but not easy. Ur self-esteem grows as you face your fears and learn from your experiences. You can start by doing these steps.

  • Practice self-care. Make new lifestyle choices by joining self-help groups and practicing positive health care.
  • Stop and take notice. Pay attention to the familiarity of the impulse. Our tendency is to overreact in the same way to the same incident. Awareness of the similarity can be the cue to slow our reactivity.
  • Choose response. Hold self-defeating impulses. Act in a self-caring and effective way. By choosing to act in a more functional way, we take a step toward facing our fears.

UrEsteem is the building up of your self. Begin today by practicing self care, pay attention to your impluses and choose carefully your response to every situtation. #ResetYourThinking #UrEsteem

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